Things Men and Women should know about each other
Department stores and malls were designed so that when you want to look at bed linen, shower curtains or handbags, there are always some speakers, tires, power tools or sporting equipment nearby.
It's an evolutionary thing. Men hunt and fix things. Women gather. Men just want to go out, kill it, or fix it, and bring it back. Why spend hours and hours looking at things they have no intention of killing? er... Buying? Let him look at the power tools or whatever, both of you will be a lot happier.
Don't make him hold your purse in the mall. Besides, men know nothing of accessorizing, and it would clash with whatever they are wearing.
Learn to move the toilet seat yourself ladies.
He heard you the first time. Don't nag or repeat yourself incessantly.
Looking at other women isn't a bad thing. If he doesn't look at an attractive female, something is wrong with him or he's dead. That's when you need to worry. It isn't like we don't look at attractive men, we're just better at being subtle about it.
Men offer solutions to problems in an effort to help. They do this so that they can frustrate us. They enjoy it. Kind of a retaliatory thing because they don't understand a woman's need for talking.
Making love on a weeknight is a good thing, but NOT preceded by 3 hours of analyzing your relationship.
Ask a man out. Spread the rejection evenly.
There is nothing wrong with being a strong, intelligent, independent, free thinking woman, but allow a man to treat you like a lady with respect, spoil you and open doors for you. It doesn't make you less of a woman.
Lingerie as a gift is NOT a bad thing. It's his way of letting you know he still finds you beautiful and sexy.
Never tell a man you love him unless you really do. They have hearts too, and even if they don't show it, their hearts can be broken so very easily.
Men withdraw to think when they have problems, this is not ignoring you. They like to "hide" in a cave and think things through. He'll come out when he's ready to talk, or not talk, respect that.
The arms and heart of a man who deeply,and passionately loves you is the best place to be.
A man's eyes can melt your heart.
Appreciate men. They need to be needed and admired.
Men can be truly artistic and show great passion and depth of emotion in art. Think about it, many of the great masters in art are MALE, composers of classical music as well. This is not slighting the many women artists there are, but too many times women complain men aren't passionate or creative or show emotion.
They have this wonderful place on their shoulder and neck just made for your head to rest on.
Men are the most wonderful, charming, loving, romantic, passionate, giving people on earth if treated right, respected, needed, admired and handled with care. They provide a lifetime of happiness.
Diapers are NOT just a woman's job.
The correct answer to "Am I getting fat?" is never,ever yes.
Don't assume PMS is the cause for every bad mood. Don't assume PMS doesn't exist.Don't tell her you love her if you don't. Tell her you love her if you do. Often.
With a woman involved....never assume. ASK
Men have an uncanny ability to look deeply into a woman's eyes and connect with her heart, even when we don't want them to.
No matter what you say or do not say in an argument with a woman, you're in trouble. Be careful how you respond.
When a woman talks to you about things, try to understand they are not always looking for a solution, sometimes they just want to talk.
Grunting is NOT an acceptable response to a question.
Being warm, gentle and loving, and romantic, even shy is not an unmasculine thing.
Women love the way you are enthusiastic about our bodies. Even if we are not.
A woman needs to be treated with love, respect and admiration as well. Women need to be cherished and treasured.
A woman is just as capable of fixing a car, faulty plumbing or electrical wiring as you are, they just like it better if you do it.
Women love being told they are loved, cherished and desired.
Women are not as impressed with your cool car as you are, but they do love seeing the little boy within peeking out in his desire to please and impress a woman.
Housework should be shared.
Don't expect a woman to clean up after you fixed the meal, unless you are ready to do the same every night when she cooks.
A woman works just as hard for her money as you do.
The heart and arms of a woman who truly deeply loves you is the best place to be.
Appreciate women.
Flowers are always a good choice, especially roses.
Intelligence in a woman does not mean she is ugly or fat. Likewise being attractive or being endowed with a large chest does not indicate ignorance.
A woman making more money than you do does not lessen you as a man.
There is nothing wrong with a man who is a "house husband". It's his choice. He still likes football, sports, whatever. It doesn't lessen your value or his as a man.
If you say you're going to call,CALL If you tell her you're going to write...DO IT If you're going to be away for a day or two, let her know. Never be too busy to at least let your lady know when you might be gone for a few. Being dependable and keeping your word to a woman means more than you know.(Ladies same rules applies to you too. Men like a woman they can count on.)
Romancing a woman/man does not end with marriage, a relationship or living together. Keeping a relationship alive means doing the little things on occasion to let him/her know he/she is still special to you.